She's a big girl..she's age of majority.. She can vote, and legally, she can make her own decisions. You have to step lightly here, because someone basically 'tattled" on her, and if you go barging up to her yellling and screaming "YOU CAN'T DO PORN", you're only adding more reasons why she SHOULD. Your best bet is to talk to her, ebcause, like it or not, there are things in her life that she's going to do that you aren't going to like. She is an adult, and you're going to have to respect her adult decisions. If you don't you risk alienating her altogether. There are better ways to deal with it. You have experience on the subject, talk to her about it like a mature person, DO NOT talk down to her like a kid. This is what I suggest you do.
Talk to her. Explain to her why the thought upsets you, but that she is an adult and you will respect her decision. Tell her that you would like her to also understand the dangers that can be involved, tell her a few HONEST experiences. Hell, offer to hook her up with a few models and talk to them about their experiences... This may make her decide NOT to do it. However, if she decides she STILL wants to proceed, not much you're going to say or do is going to stop her. Instead of having her go behind your back and having a terrible experience with a sleazebag, look for a reputable adult photogrpaher in your area, or offer to send her to one, someone who is trustworthy and businesslike, and have her work with them. It's better to ensure her safety than to have her running out being rebellious and perhaps being hurt or damaged in some way. You have to make a hard decision here, but most importantly, let her make her decision. It's HER life, and you can't run it. You can work WITH her, or against her. Make sure you don't talk to her mad though! Stay calm, be reasonable. She's probably a smart girl and she can figure it all out from there. Be support for her and she will ALWAYS come to you. Best of luck!
