Quote:
Originally Posted by Donny
Thanks for bumping this, ADG. I was banned before the outcome was finalized on this. Just as baddog stated, the charges were dropped. Anyone can accuse any other person of anything they choose to accuse them of. Fortunately for me, the woman who accused me was a nut job. Her daughter - the one who she claimed was shown porn - called CPS and had herself removed from the home, told her grandma that her mother had lied about me, and made sure everyone else knew her mom was full of crap. Case dismissed. And without her psycho mom around, she started hanging out with us again and even took trips with my daughters (the two who live with me call me dad so I call them my daughters).
|
WOW!! Damn!!
I don't know you, but I way believe your story.
This exact story happened to a friend of mine. Almost to a "T".
Got arrested on accusations from a child of a little girls "bat shit" crazy mom.
Got arrested, paid out 5% of a 500k bond to get out before he was transferred into county. Scary thing! Worst wrap to go into LA county jail system with. "Small Eyes" get killed there quick!
One thing I know about people that hurt or molest children: They all have that shit on there PCs and phones and I don't care how well you think you can hide it, the cops will find it. Pics, mags, any form of electronic media, forum visits, searches, etc.
I knew my friend had nothing to worry about, because, I knew they wouldn't find anything to corroborate the charges levied.
The police took all of his PCs, his parents PCs, his phones, etc. This guy is 58 and didn't need this shit.
The cops and FBI electronic forensics team found Zero!! Charges got dropped at first arraignment, and 2 weeks latter, the father was found out that he made the little girl say that shit, because he thought my friend was seeing his ex-wife.
25K+ later, My friend was "ONLY" guilty of being a nice guy and a handy man who fixed shit around this crazy lades house for free.
I have 2 kids, and I'm all about putting these types of people to death, but after the facts are presented, not before.
As a result of the above story which was 3 years ago, i made certain rules for my family and kids: (My Son is 3, duaghter is 6)
1st: There will never, ever be any sleep overs at my house unless one of the kids parents are actually sleeping over with their child. No if ands or buts about it!!
Harsh? Why??? I will tell you why!!
I don't need a parent finding out what I do and getting upset and thinking, or accusing me of me "shooting" their child for some sick and twisted make believe pedophile scene. This is a very real situation for me, Because I'm a content provider of adult material. People automatically think we (Legal Adult Shooters) all video tape children. I wouldn't be charged, they would wheel the electric chair to my house, end of story.
Sound funny, but not if you really think about it.
2nd: when I go to kids parties or get together with kids, I am very aware of my surroundings, I will not, ever be in an area alone, with my child and the child of another with out another adult in arms distance.
If that other parent leaves his child with me and my child, i take both kids where there is a group of other parents and kids.
And it has happened. I go off to corner of a kids party to make a work phone call, my son or daughter brings another kid over with them to say hi. My wife is really good about keeping an eye out for things like that and takes both kids to where the main party is or keeps all other kids away from me.
Paranoid? Maybe! But there will never ever be any kind of misunderstanding that will take away my freedom. I also bet Donny doesn't think I'm crazy. lol
Lastly, if you are a content shooter and you have kids, really think about how you live your life with your kids and other peoples kids. It only takes one jealous, spiteful, hateful, mean. not very nice person to file charges on you and the authorities, take that shit seriously. They will take you straight to jail and let the judges and lawyers sort it out 25k+ later. And trust me: you will 100% make the 6'o Clock news and star in your very own GFY thread!
So Donny; I feel for you my friend for having had gone through something so traumatic and life changing.
Hope all is well with you and your family.
Just Dave