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Originally Posted by Donny
Y When a woman comes up after a speech with tears in her eyes and says, "Thank you for apologizing. This is what ruined my marriage." that feels like a bit of redemption. When some young guy says what he's heard helps him to stop looking at porn, that feels like a bit of redemption. When a sex addict in a recovery group meeting comes up and says, "I've been going to meetings for 18 months, but what you said in 5 minutes has helped me more than anything I've ever heard" that feels like a bit of redemption. When a man emails out of nowhere and says, "I heard you two years ago at ____ church. I've never looked at porn since that day. Thank you." that feels like a bit of redemption...
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people love to blame porn and other inanimate objects but they should be looking inside themselves to see why they are being drawn to such things. its not the porn's fault, its theirs. its a total cop-out. oh yes, just without that evil porn my marriage would of been perfect..bullshit. porn was just a vice used to satisfy something that was missing. the young guy is just looking at porn because he's horny. its far better than sexually harassing or even raping some poor female. true sex addicts have a mental affliction that no amount of talking will fix. its a problem that will never truly go away for them.