i posted this is another thread but hey why not..
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Originally Posted by Donny
Y When a woman comes up after a speech with tears in her eyes and says, "Thank you for apologizing. This is what ruined my marriage." that feels like a bit of redemption. When some young guy says what he's heard helps him to stop looking at porn, that feels like a bit of redemption. When a sex addict in a recovery group meeting comes up and says, "I've been going to meetings for 18 months, but what you said in 5 minutes has helped me more than anything I've ever heard" that feels like a bit of redemption. When a man emails out of nowhere and says, "I heard you two years ago at ____ church. I've never looked at porn since that day. Thank you." that feels like a bit of redemption...
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people love to blame porn and other inanimate objects but they should be looking inside themselves to see why they are being drawn to such things. its not the porn's fault, its theirs. its a total cop-out. oh yes, just without that evil porn my marriage would of been perfect..bullshit. porn was just a vice used to satisfy something that was missing. the young guy is just looking at porn because he's horny. its far better than sexually harassing or even raping some poor female. true sex addicts have a mental affliction that no amount of talking will fix. its a problem that will never truly go away for them.
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Originally Posted by Donny
Honestly, this pisses me off. I'd like to ask a few questions. Feel free to ignore me.
If I were to film your daughter - when she's over 18 of course - and I told you what a great anal scene she'd shot for me the day before, when I teamed her up with three guys who all had her do ATM and then shot all over her face and in her hair, how would you feel about that?
If it's not okay when it's your daughter, why's it okay when it's someone else's daughter? Because she's making money for you and signed a model release?
When I've asked questions like this of Ron Jeremy while debating him at Ohio State and at Yale University on Nightline ABC, he always pointed to Jenna Jameson as an example of success in this business. I pointed out that Jenna is the exception, not the rule, and that most girls have a very short "career" in this business, after which the work they do will follow them around for life. Long after the money is spent and they're old grandmothers, their grandkids will still be able to find them somewhere. Nina Hartley, on the other hand, was more honest when I debated her and Ron at Ohio State. She said, "It's true - the majority of models in the porn industry have about a 2 year shelf life, and afterwards won't be able to work anywhere better than home depot."
Now, Jenna is broke and probably can't do very well in this industry. How does that make you feel? What if she was your little girl?
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i don't get the whole 'if it was your daughter' scenario that is always brought up..of course no parents wants their kid doing porn. parents don't want their kids to do a lot of things that are going to do or try at some point in their lives. including many sexual things in private that no one besides who was there will know but they are going to do it. no one wants their kids to spend their lives working for minimum wage, making bad life decisions with relationships but millions are doing it. i don't get the point of that daughter argument. if our daughters didn't do any of the things we didn't want them to they would be virgins for life who lived in a bubble.