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Originally Posted by Jel
^ right, but the cries of 'no' weren't actually real were they - no matter what the 'rapist' thought. So that isn't actually a rape is it. The very definition of the word rape = against the woman's will - if she wants it to happen, creates a situation where it happens, says no hoping they won't actually stop, then excuse my confusion - how on earth is that against her true will?
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This is a matter of semantics that you are getting into. But I think it's important to remember that there are at least two people who are involved in the sex act. The women who have this fetish specifically want it to be a true rape as far as the mindset of the male partner who ends up forcing himself on her even if she gets excited by it when it happens.
This, as opposed to a boring safe set-up scenario where she has discussed the role playing scene with a boyfriend or male friend who she already knows and trusts to put on an act. It's the unpredictability, danger and reality of it that makes it exciting. I think it's reasonable to call that a rape fetish. You are free to disagree with the phrase for politically correct reasons or because you just don't like the terminology.