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Originally posted by sexeducation
Post those resources please ...
I have been told that you are knowledgable ...
And I appologize for any previous curses. I too lose my temper every now and then.
QUOTE: "Half of the reason that women are LESS likely to have vaginal orgasms is not their fault, but actually the lack of knowledge on the part of their lover (or themselves). "
Knowledge is the reason 50% of women never have an orgasm. Stimulate their clitoris-glans my friends - as most can not have an orgasm - (slang) from just screwing.
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That isn't true either.. shall we start some lessons here? Ok.
Sex is not the physical act.. The act of sex itself is 90% mental, 10% physical.. Your neural pathways will respond to physical stimulation as they are supposed to, and it will stimulate the pleasure center in the brain, which will stimulate the hypothalamus to release the hormones into your bloodstream which are the result of pleasure stimulation. This is what results in the "pleasurable sensation" or the "headrush". This is all find and well and good, this is why masturbation is also pleasurable.. HOwever, this will not ensure a fantastic sexual experience.
Women are a million times more likely to have ANY kind of an orgasm if they have some form of mental stimulation as well. Touching and caressing also prepared the body for more intimate acts by opening up the flow of endorphins. The more flowing through the bloodstream, the more pleasurable the physical experience. Touching, caressing, even being in close proximity, physical contact with your lover will automatically draw response, and this should be a large part of foreplay. Some people jump right into eating out or blowjobs without the mental warmup that leads to truly fulfilling sex.
Try by telling a woman how attractive she is.. don't lie.. tell her about the things about her that turn her on. Most men don't realize that this can also make a woman more receptive to suggestions for things that have never been tried before. A woman achieves the most pleasure when she feels that her partner reveres her as a sexual being, and treats her like the best, most ravishing lover he's ever had. This is where the "playboys" and "sweetalkers" have it on the normal old Joe Blows.. They know the power of words to stimulate the imagination and enflame passions and lust. Touch, worship with eyes, fingers, mouth. Lose yourself in the touch.. I can almost guarantee she will return the favor... Do not progress to the next level until you KNOW her mind is only focused on you and the pleasure you can bring her. Leave her panting, begging even. You can do it if you WANT to bring her pleasure. Work your way around her clirtoris and vagina.. Don't just jump in. Big mistake #2 men make. They jump in like it's a race, and by doing so they miss out on the REALLY wild ride.
Once you ease yourself in (it's good make a woman beg, it works them up more, but don't make them wait TOO long), start slow.. some guys come in with a tongue like a weedwhacker and honestly, most women don't like that to start off with.. it's too much stimulation. Go on instinct.. If one thing you do makes her squirm and another makes her cringe, do what she enjoys.. DO NOT be afraid to ask her what feels good for her! Women will NOT always enjoy the same stimulation every single time, so asking is NOT a threat to your manhood, it's ensuring that your manhood gets some GOOD loving.. Eat her to orgasm once, twice, as many times as you like.. Then you can move on to the next step..
Now I'm sure other things will happen in between, but in the meantime.. remember the g-spot! This is the key to vaginal orgasm! You can find it by inserting a finger with your fingertip towards the TOP of her body, and do a "come hither" type movement.. The g-spot is a knobby, harder bit of tissue approximately 6 inches in (but this is different for some women) and it can be anywhere from the size of a pea to the size of a quarter, or thereabouts. Most women it's dime sized and up. Don't start reefing on it! But make note of where it is, caress it lightly (it's a tightly packed bundle of nerves, it CAN be overstimulated). When you enter her, make sure to angle the head of your penis to rub the ridge against that spot. If you continue in a RHYTHMICAL motion (most women have their trains of orgasm broken by a guy CONSTANTLY changing pace) I can almost guarantee orgasm, without clirotral stimulation. YOu might not even get it the first time, but if you keep trying, the results can be wet and messy to say the least. Even if you don't hit the g-spot, rhythmical motion is the key to vaginal orgasm, and women CAN achieve it. In fact, the more a woman masturbates, the more likely she is to achieve vaginal orgasm. Why? Because she knows her body better.. she's more aware of her body's response, the angles, speeds and whatnot required to bring her to orgasm. Female masturbation is a beautiful thing. Men would learn a lot if they watched their women masturbate more often. Anyways, this is the reader's digest version, I COULD make this a LOT longer, but I have work to do.
Stick that in your pipe and smoke it, mister "I know so much about women's bodies".