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Donny, let's not deal with or even acknowledge the weaknesses, propensities for addiction and obsession, or even the basic desires and fantasies that people have that prompts them to seek out porn. And not all of that is bad Donny. There are plenty of people who view porn from time to time who aren't ruining their lives, just as there are plenty of people IN porn who treat it like a business and aren't making a mess of their lives.
Are there problems with this or any other vice? Of course there are. But are those problems due to the availability or wrongness of the vice, or are they more centered in the people themselves? Where is the true blame and source of the problem Donny? Porn itself and the existence of it, or humans themselves with human failings and weaknesses?
Personally I think it's the latter. Thus, the focus of your crusade is misdirected. You'll argue the point no doubt, but I think deep down you know I'm right.
Porn isn't going anywhere. The USA isn't going to outright outlaw porn across the board anytime soon, you know this. You also know that there was probably a better way that some of your past models could have been handled and treated by YOU so that their time in porn wasn't so traumatic for them.
But no, it's just easier to blame porn, right reverend? :D
You want porn gone. Porn is never going away. Neither is your paycheque, for as long as porn exists you've got something to crow for pay about. Let's close down every casino as well while we're at it. I mean gambling ruins some people's lives too right? No, it doesn't Donny. Human weakness and urges that some people can't control is the root of it. Do you really believe for a second that such weak addictive people wouldn't find something else to obsess on and ruin their lives over?
You people who blame the vice rather than take any responsibility for your own actions are as bad and annoying as those who call their own weakness and failings "a disease". Alcolholism, same thing. "oh it's a disease"... Yeah, it's anything but your own inability to control yourself and govern your own actions. It's as pathetic as your (Donny's) inability or unwillingness to listen to anyone here or be open to adjusting your take on things in any way. You've been offered some pretty sound advice before on these boards, by many here including myself. Rarely if ever do I see you take it much less acknowlege it as being worth considering. You come off like you've got it all figured out when you so don't, and everyone else is wrong, especially all the 'dirty pornographers' here. We get it, you were one of us and now you have utter disdain for us.
But tell me, why isn't your Christian fan base rallying to your former porn girl's cause? Why haven't I seen any mention in your articles about what's being done to help that girl, or how the flock is being asked to open their hearts and wallets? Is she no longer worth saving? Certainly I've seen dozens of such causes on the adult (porn) industry forums over the years were hundreds of us contributed to help one of our own. Some of those causes were even legitimate.
Surely there's some responsibility there on your part Donny, no? This girl's time in porn didn't have to be a path down into a pit of living hell did it? If not for hooking up with some people who used and abused her would there not be a chance that she might have actually come away from this with at least something positive? If you, the guy who 'brought her in' had've handled her differently....? Donny, if you can admit that YOU had a major part in her downfall then how can 'porn' in general be the sole scapegoat here?
Donny how can you not see any hypocrisy with your position here when I and others can see so much of it?
Don't react, think on it.
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