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Originally Posted by Tam
Thanks for not making me say this!! Judging people because of how they look is one of the meaner things I think can be done - people don't just wake up and decide they want to be fat, that isn't how it's done!! And casting stones and making mean and nasty remarks to and about them is exactly the meanest thing that can be done and doesn't make them want to do anything about it - it's just being mean for the sake of being mean in my opinion. |
Judging others on anything is a slippery slope imo... no-one knows the mental battles someone else faces every day. Threads like this aren't exactly calling anyone specifically out, so in theory no real harm done. It's just a shame that people who are healthy, have no mental battles etc, feel they are somehow better than those who are fat/thin/depressed/addictive/whatever.
Be thankful you aren't like that, but to shit talk others because of the problems *they* face/go through is a bit meh, imo. It *is* a case of that person doing something about it, but at the same time it isn't... when you're in it, you can't see it, most (if not all) of the time.