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Originally Posted by Rob
Has she fully healed from the wreck? Is she mobile? Can she walk? If you answered yes, then I don't feel sorry for her at all. Maybe she can use the accident as justification for getting fat, but deep down inside she's depressed and not willing to make a change. If she can get up, she can eat properly and do basic, basic exercises. So yes, I would be a judgmental prick if I ever met her because frankly, I loathe lazy people with no motivation or drive. But I would be judging her character, not her weight.  |
And there's what many in this thread have the problem with. Out of ignorance of what depression is, the end result is being a judgemental prick (to use the phrase mentioned already).
You aren't seeing that what you loathe in someone else because you admit you don't understand the circumstances, and them living in that mental state, is leading others to be judgemental pricks by labelling you as a judgemental prick
Which is why I'm now gonna take my own advice and stay the fuck out of everyone else's thinking
