Originally Posted by FingerPrinter

I think most of what you write is hick nonsense, including this, but I'm thinking of taking a similar approach... not in this sneaky way, though the thought has crossed my mind

Sort of dating this girl, first time I've had feelings for a girl in a long time, tonight when she comes over I'm going to ask her directly to be able to look in her phone. The way she is when we're together is perfect, but when we're not together all sorts of alarm bells going off, mainly just from what I've seen of other girls and the way they've cheated blatantly (with me) on their boyfriends.

Depending on what the results are - might end up cutting her off, or might end up buying her a scooter (lol) - a cheap one, and it'll be in my name but it'll essentially be hers.

I've already brought up the subject of if she is seeing anyone else or anything a few times, she insists that she isn't. I guess we'll see how it goes tonight.