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Originally Posted by Rochard
Why. If she found out about it three years later she would get a chuckle out of it.
I disagree with all of you on this.
Years ago I was living with a girlfriend and I thought she was fucking around on me. I did what you guys think I should do - I confronted her. (In fact, I called in sick from work, went out with a few friends, and came home six hours earlier than usual and caught them in the act.) Suddenly I discovered I was living in her apartment (the lease was in her name) and our money was in our joint account - which she quickly emptied out.
I will never ever let that happen to me again.
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I think what you did, at the end of the day, was well played. Though I'm the last person to know anything about a healthy relationship.
Let's face it, a LOT of people cheat, there are lots of neckscarf dudes that are either indifferent, trusting enough, or cheating themselves to not have it consume them.
Then there are guys like you. You used a sneaky tactic but I'm sure you were so relieved that you appreciate your wife a million times more for it. Don't you?
I know another guy that was married... he setup a hidden camera in his bedroom and frequently watched his wife have sex with one of her collegues or something like that, right in their bed. Ripped him apart but at the end of the day he was hooking up (and often) while he was away from the house out on trips. Fucked up thing is even after they separated he would keep watching the camera.
In both scenarios I think the concept is quite clear - ignorance is NOT bliss!