Originally Posted by Rochard

I disagree with all of you on this.

Years ago I was living with a girlfriend and I thought she was fucking around on me. I did what you guys think I should do - I confronted her. (In fact, I called in sick from work, went out with a few friends, and came home six hours earlier than usual and caught them in the act.) Suddenly I discovered I was living in her apartment (the lease was in her name) and our money was in our joint account - which she quickly emptied out.

I will never ever let that happen to me again.