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Originally Posted by Ferus

According to him, its always someone elses fault.
- His SEO Projects crashing = Googles fault
- His paysites crashing = Tubes and pirates to blame
- Him getting beaten up = some womans former BF/Husband/Friend
- Him being out of Money = high drug prizes
Step ONE if you want to succeed, it to accept 100% responsibility for everything that happens in your life.
It's simpel: E + R = O
(Events + Responses = Outcome)
How you respond to whatever event in your life, determines the outcome.
If you do like the outcome/predicted outcome of a situation, change your response. It's the only thing you CAN change.
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Most all addicts blame anyone but themselves for the negative events in their lives. Its a pattern of behavior and continues to facilitate the disease and keeps them from recovery.