Originally Posted by ManPuppy

Same answer. Find your target niche market: A) Girls who like big boys, or B) Girls who don't care as long as you have whatever else they're looking for. While A) would be ideal, B) will get you a girl with more depth - and it requires more work. Not to get all eHarmony on you, but write a list for yourself of what you have to offer in a relationship, and inventory of yourself. Armed with that knowledge, put yourself where the right traffic is. An obvious one might be an OA meeting (I'm not being mean or facetious, just looking at where your market might be). You're not going to find it on this board or on a street corner. You're just going to have to buckle up and get in the real world with the real you.