the one who seeks happiness in others or needs others to "complete" him/her is destined to get fucked...
finding happiness alone, no kids, no gf/wife and then finding more happiness with others is the key...
kids are bad ROI IMO and I am not a gambling man...I can learn to love the shit out of anything, a dog, a wife, 100 cats ect...saying that there is no reward in parenthood would be a false statement...but it is a sacrifice that will probably not yield satisfactory results, lets say a kid costs 500.000$ from birth to college...thats like 70$/day for food/education/clothes/i-shit/vacations/medical/allowance ect...
on the one hand I can have a child and grow in to the thing and talk myself in to believing I did the right thing, and fuck one and the same woman for 30 years because * m y s t e r y * and put up with something that she shat out and hope it does not grow up to be like most losers
or
I could easily get a new girl every day for 70$/day and get my dick really really really really shiny, glow in the dark shiny, and have it polished by fresh new girls for the next 20 years...thats 7000 guaranteed days of shiny shiny shiny dick...
in the end it all boils down to one question: do you want a shiny penis?
