If you don't want kids, then don't have them. It's the best for you and for your potential children.
We are genetically programmed to want to reproduce, to spread the species, but if you don't feel that call, then you have simply overcome that genetic need. It's not that uncommon nowadays.
I do have 1 kid. I love him to pieces, he is my entire life and he was a very wanted child (we tried for 3 years to conceive him), but I swear that come homework time, sometimes I wonder what I was thinking!
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