Originally Posted by Jel

not divorced yet, but been split for 4 years. lost literally everything during the process (chuck in a few other huge upheavels too), and have never recovered. I'd never shack up with a woman again, let alone get married again. To be brutally honest, it fucked with my head in more ways than I could ever imagine, and I'm not the same person - a LOT of mental/emotional scars. Wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy.