Originally Posted by CurrentlySober

OK, thanks, yes, i understand it now, but i still don't like it. but what bothers me is why somebody would get off on something like that??? last i checked, a marriage is about trust.

for a example, a woman named diana marries a man named lawrence. diana is madly in love with lawrence, diana has never slept with lawrence. diana has never even seen lawrence naked. but on their wedding night, to consummate the marriage, diana finds out lawrence has a 5 inch cock that she can not get off on at all and finds it inadequate. your telling me that lawrence, being a sweet kind man, should be cheated on by diana so she could get her taste of a man she's not married to's 9 inch cock???

there is a word for that, it's called fornication. now i'm not a religious man, quite frankly, i'm a atheist. however, if you make a vow "til death do us part", that probably counts as a promise to stay commited to each other.

the problem i have with society is the individual mindset of the masses that when rules are handed down, they either don't play by those rules or find some exception to the rule so they can achieve the means to an end they seek to accomplish. if you marry somebody, your stuck with them because you made a promise, no exceptions. if your in a religion, you should follow it to the letter. if your friends with somebody, you should go to the ends of the earth for them. it is why i feel our society lacks discipline and thus, people suffer on a moral level.