Cuckolding originally was a wife fucking some other man without the husband knowing. The meaning has been subverted now with humiliation, femdom and submission. When the husband is aware, it becomes more of a hot wife type of relationship. Some men, myself included, love watching other men fuck their wives. We love watching, participating or sharing. My wife loves it. She does not have any desire to see me humiliated, wear nylons and panties, suck cock and take an assfucking. Some men love this aspect of it and that is more femdom than cuckolding. My wife does not want me fucking other women so we are not swingers. I'm not cuckolded because I know who she fucks. She is now a size queen and loves men that can fuck her hard for a couple of hours. Not a lot of husbands can do that after 10 or 15 years of marriage. It's hard to explain the attraction to those that don't get it. It works for us, because there is no cheating, no hiding, and no lying. We've been married a long time and our sex life is more dynamic and alive now than it was 15 years ago. We literally cannot keep our hands off of one another. It makes things very, very interesting and as they say, happy wife, happy life.
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