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Originally Posted by The Porn Nerd
Yes but hard work alone is not the answer, either. I see plenty of people killing themselves working 3 jobs. Tell THEM to 'work harder' and they might shoot you - except they don't have the strength left because of, you know, working so hard.
No, you need a plan PLUS hard work PLUS enough flexibility and self-awareness to shift your plan and hard work accordingly when you are not succeeding. While working hard and never stopping is required so is a reasonable, obtainable Goal and Action Plan to get there.
A lot of people are willing to work their asses off (more than you would think) but they don't know what to do or how to do it.
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I didn't know what to do, or how to do it, but I figured it the fuck out because bills needed to get paid and I didn't want to live with my lights getting shut off one more time.
I had no plan. I could barely use the internet. I sure figured it out though.
All I had to have was determination. It's so hard for me to have sympathy for people who choose to stay stuck. I try, but it's very very hard.