Originally Posted by TheSquealer

How do you know its simply "fat" and they are not actually drawn to other traits like "low self esteem" which often runs hand in hand with poor self image? A person could say "i love BBW women" because its socially acceptable but could be (with or without conscious awareness) simply been seeking to fulfill a need to be domineering, controlling or abusive to a partner, require a partner with low self esteem...