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Originally Posted by Bladewire
Strange way of thinking. I don't fit well in the Gay or straight community being a Gay single father pornograper. As us pornographers know, it's hard being out about what we are, and it has its drawbacks in many aspects of our lives. But at least we are true to who we!
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As I'm a straight man, you might say say I have no right to comment, but I have so many true friends who are gay, and I have acquaintances who imagine that they're closeted. Not a justification, just context.
Hard or not - push the envelope, seize the day. Do something to make yourself more free every day. Above all do NOT enable those who are telling you you're inherently "bad" regardless of what is offered.
I know it must be difficult sometimes for you with a child. Much respect (as if anonymous internet respect on an adult webmaster board mattered :-) ... ) for doing what you need to do to be a good parent.
From what I've seen though, many of the most aggressive anti-gay folks are struggling with their own sexuality. I'm not alone in that observation.
JMHO.