WOW I now have heard it all! NEVER EVER EVER give someone your domain name! If they want to be like that, move on find someone else. Simple as that. I can understand if they would want you to list them under your contacts but to transfer owner ship of your domain name to them?
Dude I got a bridge for sell name golden gate, if you or anyone does anything like what they are asking, you deserve what ever fallout happens. Sorry but you don't see mainstream sites or other big adult websites doing this? Screw them.
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