I guess I will link to this page which may help explain why it is important that you are NOT an electronic service provider.
Distance selling EU VAT thresholds - Avalara VATLive
Because the big change is no threshold limit on electronic services:
"Note, there are no distance selling thresholds for electronic or digital services to consumers under the new 2015 MOSS VAT rules."
And if you consider your business to not fall under that category, you can assume that to stay compliant with VAT, you don't need to pay it if under the limit. And the limits are between 35,000 Euro and 100,000 Euro, per country. Most small businesses can stay under those limits.
Do a search of sales by country, per calender year. I'm fairly certain companies billing out 100K/month would be under those limits in most VAT countries. And even if they go over, the VAT only applies to the overage (if you even care to accommodate VAT in the first place).
That's my research on the subject.