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Originally Posted by Far-L
Do you personally know anyone into these types of fantasies that indulges in this as a lifestyle choice? Perhaps a friend could get it through to you so you understand. Going even one second past the call to stop is wrong. Those into this type of thing will tell you how important that trust and understanding is to the whole relationship. Fantasy is one thing but when it is going too far there has to be an acknowledgement and consent and agreement to stop. Trying to test that limit beyond what a person desires means it is no longer serving the fantasy of the one and only serving the desire of the other and that makes it non-consensual.
Make sense?
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I've produced 200+ bdsm movies so yes i know about this.
"Going even one second past the call to stop is wrong."
BUT IS IT RAPE IN THE COMMON SENSE OF THE TERM?
I DONT THINK SO.
WRONG YES. RAPE IN THE COMMON SENSE? DEFINITELY NO.
ESPECIALLY WHEN THE CONSENTED FANTASY BEING PLAYED IS RAPE.
AND YES IT MATTERS WHAT LINE WAS CROSSED.
DID THE DOM CONTINUE FOR 1MIN OR DID DOM CONTINUE FOR 3HRS. MATTERS WHEN THROWING THE TERM RAPE AROUND AND LABELING SOMEONE AS A RAPIST.