It's all in wikipedia, as usual:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Asia_Carrera
"Carerra's colander was worn in honor of the mock religion of the Flying Spaghetti Monster; she is one of about a dozen "Pastafarian" Utahns who have worn a colander in their official state ID photos"
"She married nutritionist and author Don Lemmon on December 19, 2003. Lemmon was killed in a car accident near Las Vegas on June 10, 2006. On April 14, 2010, Carrera confessed on her blog that she became an alcoholic after Lemmon's death, that she had joined Alcoholics Anonymous"