If you have a small child and are in a very cosmopolitan city like NYC all you have to do is take your kid along with you when you go to a downtown area and 30-ish women cannot help but stare at the cute kid. Their DNA is screaming "I want a kid" but the social engineering they have been subjected to all their lives says "kids will destroy your life". This is the age when women begin to understand they have been hoodwinked. I have had a few business cards handed to me after we talked and they realized I was not married.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with a female wanting to be educated or even working in a high flying career but they should also be told that most of them will be devastated if they spend their fertile years opening their legs for every degenerate bad boy and then end up rushing to get married only to have so much trouble getting pregnant at 35 years of age. One of my sisters works in a prestigious law firm and is going nuts right now because she is trying to find meaning in life after turning 45 and realizing she is lonely. I get lots of cat pictures via text. In fact I know a few other females who text me pics of their cats.
So women SHOULD be educated and SHOULD have ambitions but this idea that kids are something that will ruin your life should be discouraged. Men are not affected as much by this idea because they can have kids as long as their sperm is good so even if you are 60 you can still impregnate females.