Thread: RIP Amber Rayne
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Old 04-04-2016, 05:02 PM  
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Originally Posted by JesseQuinn View Post
just wanted to address this. it's totally clear you didn't know she had died when you posted that and yeah, maybe not something most peeps would do** but wanted to say...

she did porn. and she was great at it. wicked actually, one of the three performers my husband and I have in common (we have VERY different tastes) so that's how I know her name. very well. her work brought us uh, hours of joy over the course of her adult career.

nothing shameful about her in that. doesn't mean that's all she is, I'm not reducing her to a physical/sexual role absent personhood and I don't believe posting a pic from her body of work should imply that. just something worth celebrating along with whatever else she did/was a human being in this world. Peeps did that here and I appreciate it. Female sexuality doesn't negate everything else.

**only in adult is it construed as disrespectful to display an image from a chica's work. if that had been a picture she painted or a poem/paper she wrote or site/project she created would it be seen that way?

of course not, speaks only to the weird ish we all have as a collective human society when it comes to female sexuality. she was in adult and her public opus was that venue. there is nothing inherently shameful about that, just what small-minded peeps choose to read in. she was also a regular human being with a full life that none of us know about. we can enjoy her work without negating that reality.

so yeah, only thing wrong with posting a pic of her adult work is what peeps read into it

that's on the readers/viewers, not on her.

as to the 'OD' ish y'all can go fuck yourselves. not fair or warranted and frankly lazy. y'all miss out if you view the world in those terms
According to news reports, it very well may be that she OD'd. She didn't die from cancer.

My my, there are a lot more lazy people in this thread than you thought.
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