Originally Posted by woj

of course you are "related to porn"... it's like saying the crack peddler on the corner isn't in the drug industry, because he didn't grow/harvest/etc the coca plants, or smuggle the coke in, or cook up the actual crack...

so I would stfu about it, and say as little as possible, and when you say anything be vague "I have some clients that work in the adult industry"... unless things are getting pretty serious, then you have no choice but to tell her, she will eventually find out anyway...