I've been going through and replying to the emails from people that were asking me to coach and mentor them. I've noticed two things i think I should point out as they will apply to a lot of people here.
#1 Everybody wants more traffic. That's just the way it is. You aren't alone. You are in a fight with every single other person with an online business. Get used to it
#2 Just because you think you have a great product doesn't mean you have a great product. The end user decides what is a great product and if nobody is paying or using your product guess what ITS SHIT! It's time to move on. If you've been working on a site for 2 years and your traffic hasn't grown, and you aren't making money. Guess what your site isn't as great as you think it is. It most likely sucks and you probably should move on to something else.
Sorry to be harsh but sometimes the best advice is that you need to move on.
You can't do the same thing day in and day out and see no results and honestly think you are headed in the right direction. Things won't magically work. When I'd launch a tour, sales idea, product, model whatever I usually knew within an hour if the idea was going to be a winner. An hour!!!!! You guys are banging your head against the walls for days, months, years and think that today your traffic might POP? It's not going to happen.
Be honest with yourself. Time is so precious. Spend it wisely.