^^^qft, da fuck? know you've written about that before BW, just insane. Unfortunately not all that uncommon though, tho usually impacts women. Adult=unfit and irresponsible. good on you for fighting back, nuff respect and so sorry you had to go through that stress. must have been scary as fuck for you at the time.
and what a disgusting person for trying to separate a child from their actual family. that's some god's work in action there
As to me:
Burger King wouldn't hire me
for real though, was finishing two degrees (ma and second u/g) and working a low paid job in security as the hours fit my insane school schedule (and overnight shifts gave me ample time to study)
decided to try camming and clips along with my bf at the time, intending to quit once I graduated. even before I did graduate found my dream job but still earned more on cam so stuck with it too. I like working, having too much free time freaks me out
my bf (now husband) and I stopped camming together though, both of us were getting worn down and didn't find it fun having to 'perform' on cue in really inauthentic ways. beyond that, found I made far more solo.
took a couple years to really find my stride in it to bank consistently as I tended to dabble initially, but once I did create a solid plan that so fucking worked I have never looked back.
will always prob have a foot in 'vanilla/mainstream' work as I enjoy it, but I'll be in this for the foreseeable future.
love being my own boss (she's a demanding biatch at times but I'll keep her) and beyond the dollaz, love the freedom and creativity of the work.