If 'either' party in a relationship 'expects' things to be 50/50, the relationship is doomed...
You both do what you do... If you know that she would rather you foot the bill.. so be it...
There are.. or will be times that you think she should be the one to do certain things.. that she won't mind doing..
This 50/50 stuff just ends up being a, "You're half of the candy bar is bigger than mine" thing and it escalates...
Damn a bunch of ... old fashioned.. equal rights..
This isn't a business deal.. If ya both do things that you know makes the other happy, then the rest will take care of itself..
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