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TCLGirls · 11-25-2016, 09:34 PM

"As the aftermath of the election of Donald Trump is being sorted out, a common theme keeps cropping up from all sides: ?Democrats failed to understand white, working-class, fly-over America.?

Trump supporters are saying this. Progressive pundits are saying this. Talking heads across all forms of the media are saying this. Even some Democratic leaders are saying this. It doesn?t matter how many people say it, it is complete bullshit. It is an intellectual/linguistic sleight of hand meant to throw attention away from the real problem. The real problem isn?t east coast elites who don?t understand or care about rural America. The real problem is rural America doesn?t understand the causes of their own situations and fears and they have shown no interest in finding out. They don?t want to know why they feel the way they do or why they are struggling because they don?t want to admit it is in large part because of choices they?ve made and horrible things they?ve allowed themselves to believe.

I grew up in rural, Christian, white America. You?d be hard-pressed to find an area in the country that has a higher percentage of Christians or whites. I spent most of the first 24 years of my life deeply embedded in this culture. I religiously (pun intended) attended their Christian services. I worked off and on, on their rural farms. I dated their calico skirted daughters. I camped, hunted, and fished with their sons. I listened to their political rants at the local diner and truck stop. I winced at their racist/bigoted jokes and epithets that were said more out of ignorance than animosity. I have also watched the town I grew up in go from a robust economy with well-kept homes and infrastructure turn into a struggling economy with shuttered businesses, dilapidated homes, and a broken down infrastructure over the past 30 years. The problem isn?t that I don?t understand these people. The problem is they don?t understand themselves, the reasons for their anger/frustrations, and don?t seem to care to know why.

In deep-red white America, the white Christian God is king, figuratively and literally. Religious fundamentalism is what has shaped most of their belief systems. Systems built on a fundamentalist framework are not conducive to introspection, questioning, learning, change. When you have a belief system that is built on fundamentalism, it isn?t open to outside criticism, especially by anyone not a member of your tribe and in a position of power. The problem isn?t ?coastal elites don?t understand rural Americans.? The problem is rural America doesn?t understand itself and will NEVER listen to anyone outside their bubble. It doesn?t matter how ?understanding? you are, how well you listen, what language you use?if you are viewed as an outsider, your views are automatically discounted. I?ve had hundreds of discussions with rural white Americans and whenever I present them any information that contradicts their entrenched beliefs, no matter how sound, how unquestionable, how obvious, they WILL NOT even entertain the possibility it might be true. Their refusal is a result of the nature of their fundamentalist belief system and the fact I?m the enemy because I?m an educated liberal. "

The dark rigidity of fundamentalist rural America: a view from the inside

11-25-2016, 09:34 PM
TCLGirls Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: California Posts: 3,068	The dark rigidity of fundamentalist rural America: a view from the inside "As the aftermath of the election of Donald Trump is being sorted out, a common theme keeps cropping up from all sides: ?Democrats failed to understand white, working-class, fly-over America.? Trump supporters are saying this. Progressive pundits are saying this. Talking heads across all forms of the media are saying this. Even some Democratic leaders are saying this. It doesn?t matter how many people say it, it is complete bullshit. It is an intellectual/linguistic sleight of hand meant to throw attention away from the real problem. The real problem isn?t east coast elites who don?t understand or care about rural America. The real problem is rural America doesn?t understand the causes of their own situations and fears and they have shown no interest in finding out. They don?t want to know why they feel the way they do or why they are struggling because they don?t want to admit it is in large part because of choices they?ve made and horrible things they?ve allowed themselves to believe. I grew up in rural, Christian, white America. You?d be hard-pressed to find an area in the country that has a higher percentage of Christians or whites. I spent most of the first 24 years of my life deeply embedded in this culture. I religiously (pun intended) attended their Christian services. I worked off and on, on their rural farms. I dated their calico skirted daughters. I camped, hunted, and fished with their sons. I listened to their political rants at the local diner and truck stop. I winced at their racist/bigoted jokes and epithets that were said more out of ignorance than animosity. I have also watched the town I grew up in go from a robust economy with well-kept homes and infrastructure turn into a struggling economy with shuttered businesses, dilapidated homes, and a broken down infrastructure over the past 30 years. The problem isn?t that I don?t understand these people. The problem is they don?t understand themselves, the reasons for their anger/frustrations, and don?t seem to care to know why. In deep-red white America, the white Christian God is king, figuratively and literally. Religious fundamentalism is what has shaped most of their belief systems. Systems built on a fundamentalist framework are not conducive to introspection, questioning, learning, change. When you have a belief system that is built on fundamentalism, it isn?t open to outside criticism, especially by anyone not a member of your tribe and in a position of power. The problem isn?t ?coastal elites don?t understand rural Americans.? The problem is rural America doesn?t understand itself and will NEVER listen to anyone outside their bubble. It doesn?t matter how ?understanding? you are, how well you listen, what language you use?if you are viewed as an outsider, your views are automatically discounted. I?ve had hundreds of discussions with rural white Americans and whenever I present them any information that contradicts their entrenched beliefs, no matter how sound, how unquestionable, how obvious, they WILL NOT even entertain the possibility it might be true. Their refusal is a result of the nature of their fundamentalist belief system and the fact I?m the enemy because I?m an educated liberal. " The dark rigidity of fundamentalist rural America: a view from the inside