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Originally Posted by SplatterMaster
Help your father as much as you can. Don't just visit, stay with your mother and give him time off. Give him days off. Most people don't realize how demanding it is to be a caregiver. His drinking more is a sign that he needs a break, that he needs help. You don't want to see her in a home then help care for her. Find out how demanding it is for your father.
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I had them both at my house till 2am this morning. Dad had a drink which was fine and my wife and i did our best making sure mum had fun. (Food, fave music on tv etc). It was a fun night and needs to be done more often...