Originally Posted by Scott McD

Thanks for those words.

Yeah the things he used to enjoy doesn't happen anymore so yeah i need to always keep that in mind.

He loved nothing more than going to the soccer games (had season tickets for about 30 years) and if not would enjoy watching the away games at local bars etc. None of that happens for him now. He relies on catching some games on tv at most.

So yeah i get that it's turned his life upside down aswell.

My brother does live close by and needs to get his ass down more often. I think sometimes he feels the less he knows the better.

We could all do that. I could go weeks at a time without seeing them. But i visit each day. Some short visits, so visits for hours taking up much of my nights at times.

So i try do as much work as possible as early as possible...