Did some investigation,
https://www.sunglasswarehouse.com/po...sses-1121.html lets you choose by frame size: narrow, wide etc.
The ones I bought is 145-150cm width, that qualifies as "very wide" in that site...
So turns out that it is impossible to buy not "very wide" aviator sunglasses offline as all the ones I tried were of that 145-150cm size... I think it would make most sense to sell "average" and not "very wide" as the main or even sole option at the stands...
No surprise I thought they look too big/wide.