He's either depressed, and possibly on anti depression meds, which make it very difficult to get an erection because the medication will suppress his sex drive.
OR
He masturbates chronically. Men that masturbate 3, 4, 5 times or more a day, can not achieve erections without an intense level of visual and physical stimulation.
OR
The last guess would be he has a deep fear of intimacy and personal confidence. His addiction to exercise might indicate that he is trying to over compensate for something. He may have genital low self esteem, small cock or he feels he has a small cock and doesn't feel confident.
It's easy to say he is gay but doubtful, unless he doesn't know what he wants and is going thru the motions with your friend.
If it's not a medical reason, they try a good old fashioned bottle of wine and administer an old remedy: The Blow Job. IF she can't get him hard with wine and a blow job, he's either on meds, needs to open up emotionally, or is just not turned on and doesn't know he is gay yet.
Last thought, and this just might be the reason...
If she is a cam model, and masturbates for money for hundreds of strange men, he might not be ok with that. Even though he is attracted to her, he may be holding back on his thoughts that she is a camera prostitute and it doesn't sit well with him. A great deal of men simply don't like whores in their personal life, even if they are just camera whores, fun to look at, but you don't want to take one home with you. It might be a turn off that he's going to have sex with the same woman that hundreds of men masturbate to on a daily basis. Sex is a very intimate situation and she has turned it into public display, and some men can't deal with that, ergo, no hard on.
A man can lie to himself, but his cock keeps him honest.
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