My father died when I was nine months old, and he was buried a few blocks from my grandmother's house. We spent our summers there at Grandma's house, bike riding and what not, and I found myself spending a lot of time there asking questions young teens should never be asking at that age and just generally questioning life.
Fuck that. When I go, I want to have a Hawaiian burial at sea. This way there is no grave site, and when my family wants to visit me they can take a vacation.
So not joking either:
http://maui114.net/sea-burial-a-hawaiian-tradition/