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Losing both your parents, specially if you are young in age, is one of the saddest and most traumatic event it can happen in your life.
When someone tells me he lost his parent, I don't dare to question or joke with it and you shouldn't either. I guess you need to go through this to understand what I mean.
Unfortunately I was in kind of similar position with Bradley when I lost my father from the same disease at the age of 18. I had a sister 16y.old then, my mother was left without a job and I had to obligatory join army for 12 months. Fortunately we had the financial and psychological support of my uncle and things through time returned to more normal rhythms.
When you completely lack support, any kind of support you don't get through these situations that easy. There's a lot of pain, questions and thoughts that do not let your mind in peace for a single second. If you can help someone that faces a problem do it. If you do not want or do not care, at least don't leave open the possibility to make him feel worse.
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