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Originally Posted by BlackCrayon
kids are work and while its rewarding many see it as work that takes away from their vacations and "free time".
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this, but it's not fear of work I don't think.
more like,
man, raising a human being is something important and should not be a half-assed endeavor
if one isn't prepared to put themselves second for minimum 18 years (realistically longer) to fulfill the role they should probably have cats. to me that's a wise choice