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Originally Posted by JesseQuinn
this, but it's not fear of work I don't think.
more like, man, raising a human being is something important and should not be a half-assed endeavor
if one isn't prepared to put themselves second for minimum 18 years (realistically longer) to fulfill the role they should probably have cats. to me that's a wise choice
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i was always afraid to have kids, afraid i wasn't good enough to raise them, afraid there would be time for little else and i am not always perfect and sometimes there is no time for much else but its something i wouldn't trade for anything.
thing is, if we don't have kids...who will? the poorly educated who just don't use protection and end up with them? or the mass litter having foreigners?