Originally Posted by Rochard

Cremation.

My father died when I was a nine months old; His body was recovered and brought back to the US and buried near my grandmothers house where I spent my summers as a teen. It was a very sad and depressing place for me.

I Cremation. I want my ashes spread off of the shore of Hawaii; They have ceremonies for that. Instead of going to a grave and being sad... I want my family to go on vacation and be happy.