If it's a private party, then the hosts have the say on who's brought to it. Period.
I know several of us took our kids to Dokk's house 3 years ago for a party that was nothing but adult webmasters. Kids were invited, they had a GREAT time and everyone had the common sense to keep their clothes on.
I DON'T think they should be taken to a convention where the hotel is designated for adult webmasters only, but if we only have some of the rooms at a big hotel, and you don't take your kids to the show and parties themselves, I don't see a problem with it - after all - OTHER guests are going to have their kids there.
And if there are kids there, i.e. a private party where you see them and/or a hotel where kids are there (adult webmaster kids or others), then have some common sense and keep your clothes on.
