Originally Posted by dillfly2000

I guess both. The thought came to me while I was about to cross the street. A car pulled up to the stop sign, I got there about the same time, so I thought it would be better if I let the car go and I'll cross at the next block (courtesy). The decision was my choice, but the person in the car indirectly influenced my decision. Had I been killed as a result of that decision, the driver would have never known.