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No need to get so snarky. Actually, I worked as a Dominatrix for 15 years and, have operated a FemDom website for over 20. About 10 years ago I spun off a sister site to my main one that features mostly porn talent. I'd never expect the ladies in this industry to be "Submissive whores." Most of the ladies we work and, my female friends in the adult business are fantastic, driven people who I love. As far as affiliates making money from Daniels, sure I can see that. She could open her own adult/political spoof site and, probably do good too. With all the Trump hate mania going around, she may even have luck with a soft porn cross over spoof. Maybe SNL will have her on the show if she needs a little more publicity. I do believe that she is under contract with Wicked so, I am not sure what she would be allowed to do. Whatever it is she is doing, she has openly said that she is earning 6 times what she did before and, for doing the very same thing. In addition, she is getting more dance appearances.

Here is my issue with Daniels, back in 2011 she went to In Touch magazine to see if she could get paid for talking about shacking up with Trump. They gave her 15k. All these years later, Trump offers her 130k not to go public with their very brief, consensual fling. She accepted and, then changed her mind. I find it beyond kiss and, tell. It feels more like kiss and, cash in. As a women in the adult industry, I've done private sessions with high profile men. Never, in my wildest dream would I have outed them, especially for profit. A lot of the women I know in this field, especially those based in LA, feel the same way about privacy. They may talk out of school to their peers but, there is an unspoken code to respect the privacy of your clients. As this was a personal, consensual fling, it seems even more tawdry to talk about it because she has apparently realized that she can make much more than 130k. It feels dirty to me.

As for the politics of this, when Gennifer Flowers sold her story to a gossip magazine about Clinton, it bothered me as well. It was a consensual affair. It was even worse than what Daniels is doing because Flowers and, Clinton's affair lasted over a decade. She said that she was in love with him. When he began his campaign for president, she was kind of left behind and, felt scorned. As broken hearted as a person can be, I can't begin to imagine doing that to an ex lover. I bring up my disapproval of Flowers to tell you this isn't a situation where I am defending Trump or, anyone else. I am expressing my disgust when women go public on consensual relationships for a paycheck or, revenge.

So, you can say shame on me and, that I don't know the adult business as much as it pleases you to do so. But, these are my genuine feelings on the subject. And while there are people who know the adult business better than I do....I know it well enough to have done pretty darn good for myself.
First let me apologize for my snarky post earlier. I guess I am getting too used to dealing with GFY geniuses when it comes to all things Trump. LOL You wrote a very compelling and well thought-out opinion on why Stormy Daniels bothers you. I can appreciate where you are coming from, I really can, but I see a broader picture here (sorry, bad pun).

I see short-term profits for porn affiliates and for anyone who sells Stormy Daniels content. But the other factor is how Donald Trump treats women. While he did not grab Daniels by the pussy or force himself upon her, as he allegedly has done for most of his adult life to many women, he did deal with her (through intermediaries) in a thuggish, disrespectful way.

Why did Daniels try to sell her story? Maybe she does keep the privacy of her clients but this being, you know, THE PRESIDENT, and a tawdry, creepy one at that, all bets are off. If and when someone offers you $130,000 (or supposedly millions to write a book) to reveal details of a client who becomes President and you turn it down you can tell us here. But I have found when it comes to sex, politics and power, everyone has a price.

(And your success in the Adult Biz is very impressive! I actually wish there were more female-owned companies in Adult.)


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If only you showed that much passion when a guy took a knee before a football game to protest police killings of unarmed men.

Actually I AM just as passionate about the eradication of police brutality, racism, inequality, prejudice and hate speech. But I found if I steer too far from pussy and money in this place it's Troll Hell. So instead I support these causes offline where they can do some actual good (donations, community outreach, just being a decent, non-racist white dude if I can, etc).
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