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Originally Posted by dyna mo
this is the advice most often given however, it's much different when applied. I've had docs (and nurses) mock me for mispronouncing medical terms when I asked them questions about a condition I have. I've had a doc point to my "smartphone there" and do my own research on my condition.
while we are supposed to assume management and responsibility for our health, docs and nurses in reality are against that, in my experience. shutup and do as we tell you is the prevailing attitude.
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I hear you, many of them have a God complex or have bad experiences with absolute nincompoops trying to self-diagnose with WebMD. I get and sympathize with a small part of their arrogance.
But in my view, 80% of success here is attitude. Treat them with respect, stroke their ego if you must but make them understand that they are a SERVICE PROVIDER to YOU. Simply one of many options and that YOU will make the final decision about your health while taking their guidance, input and knowledge into consideration.
The fact of the matter is that Western medicine is optimized for two things
1) Blanket, non-customized treatment of the masses
2) Profits
The task at hand is to take charge, outsmart the system and attempt to cherrypick the good parts to the best of your abilities. Obviously not always easy, but the best you can do is good enough.