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Originally Posted by Spunky
String him along and after you find a new one, rip out his heart and stomp on it like the rest of the she devils do
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Originally Posted by KlenTelaris
Just lie and problem solved.
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yeah, really not my style but if I ever decide to embrace being a selfish biatch I'll keep this in mind
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Originally Posted by WinstonBizprofits
Just dont play mind games with each other. Be honest all the time. If you respect each other this way, you'll remain friends even if you're no longer together.
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Originally Posted by Sly
He's in a bad place.
If you care about him at all, you need to end it. That's in, completely ended. Not friendship. He will just hang on and torture himself with the hope that you'll change your mind.
If you let him cling to that hope, you are only using him for your gain and severely abusing his emotions.
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^^^word
I am going to tell him the truth and I doubt we will be able to still be friends for the reason you describe. which fucking sucks. but yeah, truth, no mind games. He's a smart, gorgeous and kind man, just not for me in the way he wants things to be. and I don't think it will be possible to turn back the clock on what he said.
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Originally Posted by astronaut x
Oh boy. Asking "guys" on a porn forum about "love"
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I don't really have any men in my life I can talk to about this: Kingston is the type of city where if you sneeze some person you've never met before asks if you've gotten over your cold. I don't want to hurt him more than I will with my reply, no one here needs to know about this.
thank you all for your thoughts. gonna do this today. fuck.