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Originally Posted by blackmonsters
Sounds like he got you to "drink the Koolaid"
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I get what you mean, sob stories are the foundation of negative relationships and should be assessed for validity vs manipulation
not the case here: his mom, dad and youngest brother died in a car crash two months ago. I was there with him, through all of it. no manipulation.
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Originally Posted by Dead Eye
no reason to ruin the friendship with a exclusive relationship.
Just tell him straight up that you don't have the same feelings. If he gets butthurt, you dodged a bullet. If he takes it like a man (which he should if he supposedly been through a lot) then you good.
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thank you for the bolded part esp, so many people don't get this
I bit the bullet and we went for a walk. told him the truth and asked if we could find a way to be cool with me feeling the way I do. he was really upset so we walked in very palpable silence but then we started talking. or rather singing as a car drove by playing Kartel.
he has some educational goals he wants to pursue and I know that world. So whether or not we stop having sex (I think quiting heroin would be easier) we have a new focus. Operation T taking over the world. I hope this works, us hanging out with me proof-reading his papers, bouncing ideas off me for essay topics?
and then model walking down the street cuz we don't give a fuck
I dunno if this will work, wish me luck.
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Originally Posted by bloggerz
depends, do you cook?
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I would never subject anyone I even remotely care about to my food. unless you want some sliced fruit. I cut a mean kiwi