Originally Posted by Busty2

Narcissists love drama. They may be the first to claim that they hate it. But why is it then that they are always surrounded by it?

They thrive on the chaos the drama creates. They feed off of the reactions we give them. It’s nourishment to them!

Narcissists don’t just pick fights at any old time. No. They actually calculate WHEN to pick the fights. They pick the fight so that it’ll give them the best outcome. For example, perhaps you and the Narcissist go out food shopping or to a local mall. The fight may begin with nitpicking how you park the car. It can escalate into how you push the cart down the aisle or how you walk. The more they nitpick, the more frustrated you become.