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Originally Posted by Bosa
People, please stop suggesting that sex workers are the solution to incels. Incels HATE sex workers, more than any other women
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men like this are why in-person sex work is so high risk. even though the dudes ostensibly get what they want with paid sex, they still resent that women who do that work can choose whom to fuck and when and on their own terms. what they want is control and it sometimes leads to some really scary shit
these men have been around since the dawn of our species probably. I feel lucky to have in my life encountered so very few. almost all the men I know are awesome. some get laid more than others (in a relationship or single) but that doesn't make any of them mean, bitter or violent
I think that in the social media/internet age these dudes have connected with allies in their own private mutually-reinforcing misery, commiserating and getting angry
with each other and forming an identity based on that, serving only to intensify their isolation and anger...
when they could be working out to look good and boost their mood, maybe getting outside/offline to experience life and developing their personalities to become someone fun, hot and interesting to be around. crazy concept
I dunno, it's easy to mock them being female. I know it's harder sometimes to get laid being a straight male. all I have to do is brush my teeth and go outside. I wouldn't drive a car into a crowd of strangers if someone I wanted ever turned me down though. I don't have the right to another person's body and that mentality is the salient difference
what they don't want is actually sex, or rather sex as probably most of us see it; an experience shared between equals
they want to control women, and they can't
these men need support and therapy, not social media to feed their own twisted hate